Laughing To Keep From Crying
Monday, February 1st, 2010
The first month of 2010 has been rough, no way more so than the catastrophic earthquake in Haiti. In the face of unmitigated tragedy, is there a role for humor?
“You know it is a catastrophe,” a colleague said to me, “when even the shock jocks don’t joke about it.”
The absence of crass one-liners capitalizing on other’s pain doesn’t mean that humor doesn’t have a real and vital role in helping people process and address tragedy. It’s been fascinating to watch some of the ways nurses, emergency response workers and the public at large have been reaching for laughter in the face of all that has happened. (more…)


“Whatever doesn’t kill you,” my patient quipped, “makes for a great insurance claim.” It was late that night in the ER, and if ever a young man was trying to put a good face on a situation, he was the one. Taking a turn too fast, he’d taken his car directly off the road — into a construction site. Battered and bruised didn’t begin to cover his condition, but you’d never know that to listen to him.
This month, we’re taking a look at humor and mental illness. I’m as thrilled as I can be to present David Granirer; he’s one of the rising stars in the field of therapeutic humor, and has wisdom we can all benefit from.
A nurse colleague of mine was instructing a VERY nervous young single mother on how to care for her child’s tracheotomy. The mother was scared — and who wouldn’t be, especially with a first child? — and very unsure of herself. She had little self-esteem, no familiarity with medical procedures, and very few financial resources.
It’s July — a month for celebration!
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